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Kick Your ''''Mental Trash'''' To The Curb To Make Way For New Experiences
General Topic Kick Your "Mental Trash" To The Curb To Make Way For New Experiences By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Cookie_Tuminello]Cookie Tuminello "We must be willing to get rid of the life we''''ve planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." - Joseph Campbell Letting go of the old to make room for the new can be difficult. Professional organizers talk about this step a lot and always advise that if you bring one thing new into your house (or life) than something old has got to go. While we all get excited about new possibilities or new moves, we also can be crippled by the fear of stepping out of our cushy comfort zone. Change, when it''''s made for the betterment of ourselves, is always great, but after we''''ve made the decision to do something new, our old friends Mr. Fear and Ms. Doubt come along and slap us with a dose of negativity. You know who these two are. They''''re those little voices you hear saying things like "You can''''t do this! Have you lost your mind? What do you mean you ''''deserve'''' this? Just who do you think you are?" Next thing we know, we start questioning ourselves left, right and center. "Is this the right time? What if it doesn''''t work out? How do I know for sure that this decision is the right one?" We need to stop listening to these two ''''fearful friends'''' When I heard my own little gremlins nagging at me recently over the decision to sell my home and move to another city, my response to them was this: There will NEVER be a perfect time for anything if I keep procrastinating and letting doubt rule my life. One of the commitments I made to myself a long time ago is to minimize my missed opportunities in life. I know I''''d just hate myself if I arrived at the Pearly Gates thinking, "I just know I should have done..." whatever it was that I wanted to do and simply didn''''t try. Yes, selling my house and moving to another city is a big step for me, but I just know that this is something I''''m meant to do right now. I''''ve lived in this house in for years, raised my family here, and I''''ve had some wonderful times in these 4 walls. Yet I just know that another chapter of my life is beginning and it''''s time for me to let go of the old and embrace the new experiences that are waiting just around the corner for me. So, here''''s a couple of tips on how to get rid of whatever is holding you back and bring in the new possibilities: 1. Get clear about what you really want then make a decision and act on it. There is no sense in doing something half-way plus if your mind is full of doubt, and then you''''re just spinning your wheels for nothing. Once you''''re crystal clear on what it is that you want to do, then like the Nike commercials say "Just do it!" 2. Clean out your ''''inner'''' closet before you start. If there are a whole lot of negative thoughts about your decision renting space in your head, get rid of them! Think of this step as ''''mental housecleaning'''' and sweep those cobwebs out the door for good. Remember when I said that you had to get rid of the old to make way for the new? This is the time to dump all those old, tired and washed up pity party thoughts you''''ve been hanging on to for years. So pack them up, put them in a garbage bag and kick ''''em to the curb. You''''re not going to need them when you finally get to your ''''new'''' place, wherever (and whatever) that may be for you.
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Every problem has a solution - Your guide to creative problem-solving
General Topic Every problem has a solution - Your guide to creative problem-solving by UltraHitsBoom How many times have you caught yourself saying that there could be no other solution to a problem – and that that problem leads to a dead end? How many times have you felt stumped knowing that the problem laying before you is one you cannot solve. No leads. No options. No solutions. Did it feel like you had exhausted all possible options and yet are still before the mountain – large, unconquerable, and impregnable? When encountering such enormous problems, you may feel like you''''re hammering against a steel mountain. The pressure of having to solve such a problem may be overwhelming. But rejoice! There might be some hope yet! With some creative problem-solving techniques you may be able to look at your problem in a different light. And that light might just be the end of the tunnel that leads to possible solutions. First of all, in the light of creative problem-solving, you must be open-minded to the fact that there may be more than just one solution to the problem. And, you must be open to the fact that there may be solutions to problems you thought were unsolvable. Now, with this optimistic mindset, we can try to be a little bit more creative in solving our problems. Number one; maybe the reason we cannot solve our problems is that we have not really taken a hard look at what the problem is. Here, trying to understanding the problem and having a concrete understanding of its workings is integral solving the problem. If you know how it works, what the problem is, then you have a better foundation towards solving the problem. Not trying to make the simple statement of what problem is. Try to identify the participating entities and what their relationships with one another are. Take note of the things you stand to gain any stand to lose from the current problem. Now you have a simple statement of what the problem is. Number two; try to take note of all of the constraints and assumptions you have the words of problem. Sometimes it is these assumptions that obstruct our view of possible solutions. You have to identify which assumptions are valid, in which assumptions need to be addressed. If you don''''t have accurate details regarding creative problem-solving, then you might make a bad choice on the subject. Don''''t let that happen: keep reading. Number three; try to solve the problem by parts. Solve it going from general view towards the more detailed parts of the problem. This is called the top-down approach. Write down the question, and then come up with a one-sentence solution to that from them. The solution should be a general statement of what will solve the problem. From here you can develop the solution further, and increase its complexity little by little. Number four; although it helps to have critical thinking aboard as you solve a problem, you must also keep a creative, analytical voice at the back of your head. When someone comes up with a prospective solution, tried to think how you could make that solution work. Try to be creative. At the same time, look for chinks in the armor of that solution. Number five; it pays to remember that there may be more than just one solution being developed at one time. Try to keep track of all the solutions and their developments. Remember, there may be more than just one solution to the problem. Number six; remember that old adage," two heads are better than one." That one is truer than it sounds. Always be open to new ideas. You can only benefit from listening to all the ideas each person has. This is especially true when the person you''''re talking to has had experience solving problems similar to yours. You don''''t have to be a gung-ho, solo hero to solve the problem. If you can organize collective thought on the subject, it would be much better.
Posted by jyarbr on Wednesday, April 09 @ 21:31:20 CDT (6 reads)
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