Why Being The Nice Guy Always Puts You In The Friend Zone! Do Not Ignore This At Any Cost
You''''''''re in love with a girl. The good news is that she notices you. The bad news is you belong in her friend zone. The friend zone is where a person who isn't date-able falls. She probably never sees you as something she would be involved in, romantically speaking. There are reasons you ended up there in the first place.
Then there are ways you could easily step out of there. If you're into a girl, the friend zone can be a hostile place for you, when you know you'd rather be in the love zone with her. Let's talk about why nice guys get stuck in the friend zone, and how they can get out.
Your shoulders too available. You're the guy who picks her up when she falls, and who offers a shoulder when she needs a good cry. You got yourself in the situation, buddy, and you'll be stuck in the friend zone forever.
You offering yourself to her will only tell her that you're a great friend, and that she will always have someone who will be there for her when she messes up. Getting too comfortable, isn't she? Unless you learn how to tell her how you really feel, she will keep using you as her little wad of napkin which she likes to blow her nose into.
You''re too available. You say yes to her every whim. If she asks you to race to her at 3:00 in the morning to help her get her science project done, or if she takes you shopping because her girl friends ditched, do you find yourself happily agreeing and then kicking yourself in the nuts? A girl is attracted to a guy who is independent, assertive and proactive.
The sexiest thing about a guy is an attitude which says Hey, I'm a busy guy. I have a life. Being able to drag you into the most awkward situations where only she has fun, and you end up carrying her stuff, tells her you're a great friend, but not a great boyfriend.