confused

[Rebecca]

I'm in college and I've been talking to this guy (who goes to a different school) for a month now and we've gone on a few dates and we've talked every day since we first began talking. We both seem equally interested in one another. I'm wondering if I should ask him if he sees things getting more serious at some point or if I should wait for him to bring it up? I don't want to scare him off but I also don't want to get led on especially since he and I go to different schools. How should I approach the subject of becoming exclusive?[/b]

[LetsTalk]

Forget the subject and have a good time. It really doesnt seem like you've been dating that long to have the big talk.
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[21Questions]

I agree just have fun and keep the communication lines open. Get to know him better and things will just fall into place.

[Rebecca]

I understand what you guys are saying and I agree. I went to go visit him at school. We had a great time and we've continued to keep in contact on a daily basis. However, we've hooked up now and I'm concerned that he won't buy the cow when he got the milk for free, if you know what I mean. Also, I am receiving a lot of attention from a guy that I go to school with. I'm worried about getting too emotionally invested in this first guy when things won't end up going anywhere and I'll be passing up on someone who's more available. Would it be wrong for me to start talking to this other guy as well?

[TellingItStr8]

wont buy the cow if you can get the milk free? I thought you had asked about being exclusive not marriage. Anyways, im not sure youre even interested in being exclusive because you now have questions about another guy. With this being the case, continue to have fun and don't worry so much about the big "C" until you are really ready to make a committment yourself.